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Enjoy the music on this playlist any time you are wanting to up your Goddess Vibes. Feel free to add to this playlist with songs that get you in the mood~ ;)


 
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Emilia Clarke in ‘Me Before You’ is a fabulousss example of a woman who evolves into her natural Feminine/Goddess energy. Plus, I think you’ll like the movie as well! ;)


What does it look like when a woman slips into the Masculine Energy inside a relationship? Let’s talk…

 
 

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Q: What to do when a man is promising to see you/date you but is not initiating or showing up hot & cold.

A: This is the perfect opportunity to practice being in goddess energy. You will be amazed to see how this changes everything...whether with this guy or someone even better.

First step is to create space. Create that void. It isn't your job to convince him, to fix the situation, or to pick up his slack.

Take that pressure off your shoulders. There is nothing you have to do right now.

If you are the one initiating contact, you are in chasing/masculine energy and this will energetically repel a man no matter how attracted or connected they are to you.

What he really needs from you right now is your feminine energy. I know it isn't easy, but just relax and watch what happens. Bring your energy/focus back to you, back to what would uplift you, nourish you, make you feel vibrant/radiant/beautiful. Observe the situation with an open heart, ease up on your expectations, and create that void.

Create space and let him come to YOU.

Everything shifts when you move into your feminine.

Q: Regarding Module 2 Training 3, “Asking for What You Want,” does this apply to a man who has stepped away and gone silent? Can I ask for some leve of communication/response even as a friend? Or does this only apply to someone you’re in a relationship with?

If a man is backing away, this is the time to give him space. When we fix/chase/pursue a man, we are giving the exact opposite of feminine energy, whose foundation is emotional freedom. If you are in controlling energy where you are trying to get something from him, you aren’t free and neither is he. Men instinctively push away from this heavy energy.

When we try to control these situations, it is primarily because we are disconnected from our Feminine power and are allowing fear and desperation to drive our behavior. It’s unattractive energy to a man, who can absolutely feel this. This is the very energy that is the reason why men ghost or make convenient excuses as to why they just can’t see you today…or tomorrow…or at all.

Masculine men are not attracted to masculine energy in women. Your most powerful response to this situation is to do nothing at all. No games, not chasing, but creating space and focusing your energy on connecting with more people & new experiences. Let him feel the void of your absence. If he’s the right man, he will step up. If he doesn’t have what it takes and is not stepping up, he’s not the masculine man for you. Keep this space open for a high-quality man who is passionate, devoted, and sees you as the high-value, highly-desirable goddess that you are!

Q: When you want to stay high-vibe but are surrounded or forced to interact with low-vibe people.

A: Self-care is critical here. In any given moment, tune in and ask yourself what you need: physically/mentally/emotionally/spiritually. Make sure that you're taking care of yourself. Make sure you're honoring what your soul needs and requires in any given moment. Rest, play, nourishment, focus, movement, etc. This is going to allow you to show up in your most optimal state and in a way that can support those around you as well.

Secondly, you don't need to stay around these people if it doesn't feel right to you. Allow people to figure things out for themselves. If you are constantly trying to fix or save people, you are actually disempowering them and conditioning them to be dependent on you.

Q: I'm wanting to let my ex go, I know I don't want him back but my mind keeps going back to him and there are heavy feelings of grief/sadness. How do I move through this?

First, give yourself MAJOR props for doing the work! For leaning into this work, for sitting with the emotions, and for opening up to forgiveness. After you've done the awareness/healing work, your next step is to begin opening yourself up to new people, masculine energy, experiences, and friendships.

Right now, you need to nourish yourself. A lot of your focus is being given to him. On forgiving him, on letting go of him, and now I want you to bring all of that gorgeous energy back to you. What is it you need? What would make you happy? Maybe going out in nature, taking a yoga class, or opening yourself up to dating and meeting new people, and especially healthy masculine energy. As you expose yourself to more and more stable, healthy, High-Quality men, the less you will feel tied/attached/bothered by the past. Continue to do the healing work but also focus your energy toward moving on.


 
 

 
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