We all experience trauma. Sometimes it’s obvious…sometimes not so much. The goal with all trauma is not to avoid it or pretend it didn’t happen but to, INSTEAD, lean into it, LOOK at it, work with it, and GROW from it. When we refuse to look within and do the Inner Work, that part of us ends up sabotaging our life in ways that we often don’t realize until it’s too late.
In this article, I discuss how a woman’s Wounded Little Girl ends up destroying our most intimate relationships and how you can begin the healing process today!
When you love someone who can’t…or won’t love you back in the same way, it can be heartbreaking. But the lesson in heartbreak is PROFOUND. It will CHANGE you. It will CLARIFY so many things for you and about you. But the question is….are you learning the lesson?
It IS a choice to learn the lesson, appreciate the experience, and move forward with a grateful heart. You have seen the things that you don't need see anymore. You have experienced things that you do not need to keep inviting back into your life. And so now... Let’s release it all.
Sometimes it’s quite obvious when the universe is trying to get your attention. Today was one of those days. Whether you’re understanding what the message, lesson or the blessing is in every “weird” situation, there ALWAYS is one. Everything really is always working out for you. Here’s my true story.
Call it in.
And do not look back...Lest ye be turned to salt.
Or in other words, unless you want slowly wither and die with the past.
Don't worry about what was...or even is. Don't focus on it because what you're looking for is not found in what was. It's found within. In your guidance. In your dreams. In all that lives and breathes in your heart.
The kingdom of heaven, some may say.
Let's dive in.
The need to please...to be liked....to be loved externally can pull you straight out of your center. And it hurts like hell when it happens. All of a sudden you're not thinking straight. You don't know which way is "right." You've fallen down the rabbit hole and are crying for a way out. And the answer that always comes... the solution... the savior, isn't someone that takes away your problems. It's the person, the message, the book that shows you how you to do it yourself. Let's go fishing!!
The closer you are to getting to that next level, the more obvious and (relatively) painful it feels to NOT be there. These are all really good signs of transformation! You just don't have space available for anything LESS THAN what you KNOW to be true and aligned for you. That energy of flowing and flying and creating things like magic, that's all you have time for nowadays. And rightfully so!! So what do you do when you feel like you've hit a momentary lapse in alignment? Let's discuss.
What do you do when you feel like you keep attracting the same KIND of people, the same relationship patterns...or really, the same patterns to ANYTHING that you're just DONE repeating. How do you really make the spiritual, mental, & emotional changes that are NECESSARY to create "real-life" changes. As above so below, ya know. Let's discuss!
Anxious Attachment, neediness, withdrawal. This is a pattern. It is learned/conditioned behavior from childhood and it can be broken! This blog is all about recognizing if you have a pattern of Anxious Attachment and how to journey back into the vibration of True Love. Love = Magic!
Love is a feeling.
It's a state of being.
It's something you tune into.
We're good at running. Running away from what we don't want. Running away from facing the truth, that person, the letdown, the pain, or doing the ACTUAL work. But what happens when you just stop and allow yourself to face the very thing you're scared of? What happens when you stop running FROM and start running TO...Let's talk.
How do you move out of doubt?
What do you do when you want to manifest something but you don't believe it....at all?
Let's discuss why doubt is actually a good thing and how you can move through it.
Boundaries. Saying no. Saying yes. Knowing exactly what you want and need and not being afraid to draw the line in the sand and say...."ok here, here is where/how I play this game..with you....and here is where I stop. Easier said than done? Let’s discuss.
Your soulmate will reflect back to you the very thing you fear the most. You get the chance to face it once and for all. You get the chance to rise.
If it's meant to be, you don't have to force it. The universe supports it. It will happen. So let the path unfold as it needs to and trust that if it's meant to be...it will be.
You know what keeps people stuck? Miserable. Questioning what they're doing wrong. Lack of focus/belief/commitment. You gotta be locked in ,tuned in, tunnel vision, eye of the tiger RUTHLESS. Let me explain why you can't afford to waffle anymore..I mean...assuming you actually want to manifestall the good isht.
Everyone from my parents to the elderly lady across the street has "advice" for me. But I'm no longer a child and these rules and suggestions that people are giving to me are no longer appropriate. TRANSFORMATION TIME!!! It's time to emerge into my power. Here's how.
We have a knack for making TRUE and REAL (and repetitive) the stories and traumas of our past. For some, this is known as Repetition compulsion. For me, the Law of Attraction. If you've ever asked yourself, "why does this keep happening to me?" you may find it empowering that you CAN actually let these stories/patterns DIE...once and for all. Let's talk.
Can you remember a time when you had no idea what would happen to you? When your future held no certainty? Think back to a time when you had to take the leap and had no idea what would happen next. Never in a million years could you have predicted THIS moment. And yet, here you are.
How does this happen? What is this power? What is this Divine order we live in?
because you can. because what lies ahead is far greater than anything that is behind you.